Have you ever been ghosted? I have.
Today, I am blessed with a family, a great man by my side and a precious little bundle of joy. But there was a time I thought it was impossible for me to REALLY find a high quality man who is ready to commit. There was a time I thought there was something wrong with me. You see, I wasn’t born as a love expert. I BECAME ONE.
When it all started
It all started with my own love problems. I was so obsessed with finding the answers to my own questions that I spent years and years in research, I’ve read so many books and spoke to hundreds of both men and women.
Do you know what my problem was?
I could never keep a man whom I really liked really interested. Not for a long term. There was a time I thought I wasn’t beautiful enough. I wasn’t smart enough. Or cool enough. And I thought it was hard to find The One. BUT I WAS WRONG:
It is easy. And it has nothing to do with your looks or IQ.
I always wondered how can a man who was really into me at first, become so distant – INSTANTLY. Without any sort of explanation. HOW? WHY? WHY ON EARTH WOULD A GUY WHO WAS SO INTERESTED SUDDENLY DISAPPEAR? Have you ever been ghosted? If the answer is YES, that you will want to know the answer.
It is actually very simple, my dear ladies. HE IS NOT INTERESTED ANY MORE.
BUT – STAY WITH ME HERE.
THIS DOESN’T MEAN THAT HE WON’T BE INTERESTED IN YOU IN THE FUTURE. THIS IS SOMETHING THAT MOST WOMEN DON’T KNOW.
Listen to me carefully right now. What I am about to tell you is A GAME CHANGER. It was a game changer for me and it will be a game changer for you as well. Trust me. I have helped thousands of women by now to turn things around, and I can help you too!
IF A MAN STARTS PULLING AWAY FROM YOU, THIS IS YOUR OPPORTUNITY TO MAKE HIM EVEN MORE INTERESTED IN YOU FOR THE LONG TERM.
The thing is, that a man usually wants some space after things between you become intensive. And maybe there is also a reason why he lost interest in you in the first place. But all that is not so important.
You see, IT’S NOT SO IMPORTANT WHY HE IS PULLING AWAY. IT IS FAR MORE IMPORTANT HOW YOU REACT ON IT.
Have you ever been ghosted? Keep in mind that being ghosted doesn’t necessarily mean the guy didn’t like you. NO.
It is much more likely he felt at a certain point that things might be moving a bit too fast. BUT that doesn’t mean it’s over. NO. And most women don’t know that. You see, in my career as a love coach, I had the opportunity to work with women all ages and what I noticed is that none of the women who were facing the same problem weren’t aware of one thing – WHEN IT COMES TO EARLY STAGES OF RELATIONSHIP, A MAN WILL EASILY CHANGE HIS OPINION.
Yes, my dear ladies, you can get him interested AGAIN – if he was interested before.
So if he starts pulling away, give him enough space to pull away. Don’t ask any questions, just stay cool and do your own thing. There are many things you can do to get a guy’s interest, but this what you shouldn’t do in this situation: is text him, call him or ask questions. OK?
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Your Love Coach Nelly